There isn’t a woman on the planet who doesn’t want to feel that she matters and I should know, I grew up surrounded by them and I know what makes them tick!

It’s not always the grand gestures that win us over, it’s usually the little things. If you were to ask a room full of women to choose between going out to dinner, or having a delicious, intimate meal at home, cooked by their man…my money would be on the home cooked meal every time. It’s the ultimate foreplay!

My mission is to empower men to woo their women, — no flashy cars or fancy jewelry required. Cooking To Score™ shows you how to stand out from every other guy who simply whips out his wallet, with no effort required and takes a special lady out to high end restaurants.

Take it from me, there is nothing sexier than a man who knows his way around a kitchen. Every man should have at least a few good meals in his romance tool box! Cooking To Score™ will teach you how to prepare simple, delicious, romantic meals that are guaranteed to impress and make her feel special.


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I grew up in the DC area, in a loving home surrounded by women. There were five of us girls in all. Cooking was the lifeblood of our home. I learned how to cook from my wonderful, patient and loving mother, and colorful and artistic grandmother. I was blessed to always come home to a delicious home cooked meal — not something I took for granted.

So I grew up around women who not only knew their way around the kitchen but who cooked from the heart. Even the most basic meals were delicious because they were prepared with love. A lot of this has rubbed off on me, my friends remark about how effortlessly I can put together a wonderful meal and make them feel so warm and welcome at the same time.

There is nothing I love more than when a friend asks me over to their home for dinner. Time is the most precious thing we have, something we can’t create more of and it’s the most valuable gift you can give anyone. When someone cares enough to take the time to prepare a meal for you it means a lot.

I was in my mid 30’s before I experienced a meal solely prepared by a man. My cousin Jim was visiting and he wanted to do something nice for me as a thank you. He could easily have taken me out to dinner, but instead, he decided to cook for me. This meal was so much more memorable (see, I’m still talking about it!)

Imagine me arriving home after a long hard day at work being greeted by amazing smells coming from my kitchen and a beautifully set dining table. The meal was incredible not because Jim was a gourmet chef, but because he took the time to do something unexpected and out of the ordinary and he did it with love.

Since then I have had many meals prepared by men who knew how to make a girl feel special and I want to show you how to do that too.